Dilemma

Please be very open minded when reading this thread.
Do not mean to offend any-body.

Ok, so I got my training program and eating plan from the Squirrel. Every thing is going well, loosing cm and picking up weight,(MUSCLEB) ) . About 3 weeks ago I started having problem with ejaculating. I can’t. My erection is only getting stronger. 1st the wife was very happy but know she feels insecure, Keeps asking if I don’t find her attractive no-more. Yesterday she asks me if there is some-one else or am I using steroids. I said no.

This is what I think is happening, I am eating correct and training hard my body is producing more testosterone hence the reason for my erection getting stronger. I sleep like a baby every night and I am sure I read on a prev post that deep sleeps produces testosterone.

Never really thought that not ejaculation would be a problem but it is frustrating me because Cuming is the best after all.

Hey, I would speak to a doc man....

Are you on juice though?

No I am not using any juice , Also I have been over weight most my life and believe me with over weight comes premature ejaculation , now its no ejaculation only a stronger erection

Man, I think speaking to a doc if you are worried about it would be the best thing...

Could be a lot of causes stress/prostate/change in chemical balances ....

Personally I would leave it a bit and see if it doesn't get better, but then just get a check up next time you around or if it doesn't get better.

Cool, will check it out

Having a strong erection and not being able to ejaculate is something that wont normally bother the ladies,because you can go at it for hours(wanna-be pornstar) and make her ejaculate quite a few times.Ejaculating problems are 80% psychological if you are not juicing.Or you can even try to fake an orgasm :hmm.Have it checked out anyway.

At 1st it was not a problem, she was happy I was happy cause she was ejaculating and my ego had a boost. I saw my wife ejaculating and telling me I am a stud, But for 3 weeks I am not ejaculating and she started asking questions. I thought it might be the training and body producing testosterone.. Thought that it might be normal and that other guys might be having the same experience from training hard. But I am sure there is a reasonable explanation for all of this. I will C the Doc.

I have experienced it before. I could go on and on and on and nothing.

For some reason I notice my third arm was simply not as sensitive as before.

This lasted for a month or so, I cant remember what made it come right or how it happened.

Could be the sudden change in your diet and life style, effecting your test level???

I came right after around a month or two.

Thx Buddy , Good to know some-one else had the same problem.Damm got me worried
U hit the nail on the head with could go on and on and on and nothing.
I thought of doing cardio for a week or two and then see what happen.

How long exactly do you go for without cumming?

My stamina changes randomly and unexplainably throughout the year, some days I'll be done in five minutes and some days only after two hours of inventive, imaginitive, and downright hardcore fucking. I think there are millions of factors involved from hormones to how horny you are. Are you really into your lovemaking sessions and do you focus on pleasuring her, or are you distracted with other things on your mind. If I've got a lot on my mind I can stay hard but nothing will come of it, until I come to and realise hang on, I'm fucking. Then spurty wurty.

Very colourful description you got their Inja! :haha :nana

Inja wrote:

How long exactly do you go for without cumming?

My stamina changes randomly and unexplainably throughout the year, some days I'll be done in five minutes and some days only after two hours of inventive, imaginitive, and downright hardcore fucking. I think there are millions of factors involved from hormones to how horny you are. Are you really into your lovemaking sessions and do you focus on pleasuring her, or are you distracted with other things on your mind. If I've got a lot on my mind I can stay hard but nothing will come of it, until I come to and realise hang on, I'm fucking. Then spurty wurty.

Ok ,we have been going home straight after work for this week, picking up the kids later , 1.5 -2 hrs and nothing, Wife been very adventurous to help me in this regard but nothing. Also yesterday after she ejaculated and dam this time her ejaculation made me horny like hell she said that I am starting to hurt her cause my erection gets bigger and stronger. I go and go and go then nothing. Basically we stopping cause she is out of it when she cums. Maybe u right. I still think its my training and deit, will do cario this week drop the weight and see what happens

There could be a psychological factor as well-more you you think about it and the harder you try, the more pressure you put on yourself.

Try going it alone and see if you can without any pressure from the wife or performance anxiety.
Bit of porn and punch the clown

Ive read somewhere that high levels of testostorone will not make you a better "stud" in the bed. It will increase your wish to have sex but if you are a fast shooter you will be a fast shooter with high test levels. Not being able to ejaculate at all? I doubt its from the diet and i doubt that your test levels are THAT elevated. I would see a doctor if i was you. Also dont your nuts get sore? Its happened to me a few times that i failed to finish and let me tell you i had pains like there is no tomorrow.

Lesa wrote:

Ive read somewhere that high levels of testostorone will not make you a better "stud" in the bed. It will increase your wish to have sex but if you are a fast shooter you will be a fast shooter with high test levels. Not being able to ejaculate at all? I doubt its from the diet and i doubt that your test levels are THAT elevated. I would see a doctor if i was you. Also dont your nuts get sore? Its happened to me a few times that i failed to finish and let me tell you i had pains like there is no tomorrow.

Ahh the famous blue balls. :cry They can bring a man to tears.

ON TOPIC

Dude the doctors can help. They will give u something and the next time you go at it u will explode! Here's the thing, you will go from being a 2hr pornstar to 2min noodle guy! Plus it might take a year to build up proper stamina again. So try everything before going to the doc bro.

Fuck man, sorry about that dude, but if it were me, and i were single, i would buy lots of rubber and make me a "good year tyre"....

Yohimbe wrote:

Try going it alone and see if you can without any pressure from the wife or performance anxiety.
Bit of porn and punch the clown

He's got a bit of a point... Can you ejaculate from masturbation?

Let's rather leave Acid out of this...

Are you struggling going to the toilet to urinate? Are you going during the night? Prostrate being enlarged can have an issue on ejaculation

No problem urinating or constantly going to the toilet but I have been getting pains in my ball that drives me up the wall. Wife suggested that I might have an infection

an infection could do that....

do you find your balls are really tight? eg: not hanging but pulled up like you would get when you cold?

are you on any medication? if so what? if you taking flomax thats your problem?

also are you having intercourse very often? few times a day, that could also be a reason?

can you ejaculate when masterbating? why I say this is anxiety could be doing this, try by yourself and see if it works, worrying really will not help things as this will make it more difficult..

and if you can ejaculate does nothing come out? could be a worry as it might be going into the bladder and coming out your urine

anyway reasons could be your testes do not produce enough test.. which I doubt is your case.. thyroid problem? prolactin issues? substance abuse, drugs/achol. and their is something else but wont scare you... go see your doc..

or you could have psychological condition, depression, anger, guillt, low self esteem, stress, etc...

Dam, Ok my balls is really tight, been getting laid a lot, I don’t do drugs or alcohol. Did a HIV TEST on Friday at work and came back negative not that I have been sleeping around but you never know. Think its time to go and see the doc.

Thx for all the replies guys.

go see a doc...

tiny wrote:

Having a strong erection and not being able to ejaculate is something that wont normally bother the ladies,because you can go at it for hours(wanna-be pornstar) and make her ejaculate quite a few times.Ejaculating problems are 80% psychological if you are not juicing.Or you can even try to fake an orgasm :hmm.Have it checked out anyway.

how do u suggest that men fake orgasms??? do it from behind pull out and spit on her back???

djeasye wrote:

tiny wrote:

Having a strong erection and not being able to ejaculate is something that wont normally bother the ladies,because you can go at it for hours(wanna-be pornstar) and make her ejaculate quite a few times.Ejaculating problems are 80% psychological if you are not juicing.Or you can even try to fake an orgasm :hmm.Have it checked out anyway.

how do u suggest that men fake orgasms??? do it from behind pull out and spit on her back???

I guess you would have to use a condom and make sounds like you climaxing! Then say im done.

Lets just face the fact that men cant fake orgasms, us women will know