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Iam new in 2 marriage almost a year
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I thought I would take Oral Primobolan & Proviron as these aren't as strong as Injectables (hope I am right?)
Also psychologically a pill is allot easier on the mind that a neadle ? (Know I'm right)
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Marco Swanepoel wrote: I thought I would take Oral Primobolan & Proviron as these aren't as strong as Injectables (hope I am right?)
No, proviron is a strong androgen.
Marco Swanepoel wrote: Also psychologically a pill is allot easier on the mind that a neadle ? (Know I'm right)
No again, once you've done your first injection it won't bother you again. To most it makes no difference whether its injectable or oral.
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I was referring to our other half’s accept the pill easier than the needle, Well my wife does
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Marco187 wrote: I was referring to our other half’s accept the pill easier than the needle, Well my wife does
Oh yes, that's likely true.
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Whilst we are on this subject the last session was about moulding and being self-centred/ thick skull so to speak. That is why I mentioned it a few lines up.
One of our biggest problems is just this, she met me as I was, fell in love with me and over the years moulded me into something else. I.e does not want me on superbikes anymore (I understand her reason but you cant change a mans passion), no more bars and night clubs, none of the los-kop friends, no more tattoos to name but a few.
Counsellor mentioned that this will always have a rebound so marry a man or women for who they are, that is why you hooked up in the first place and don't change them. This works both ways although I have never tried to change my lady. I do not want a subservient women, I prefer the type that gives me kak is I act like an @hole.
She found us both to be stubborn, so homework for the next 7 days was to learn how not to be stubborn by practicing:
Listening
Remind yourself you are not always right
Trust
Humble yourself
Be open minded, I thought this part meant we should join a swingers club
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Well done to the two of you for getting help before it became too late. I wish more people would be willing to work hard to keep a relationship alive before just looking for the easiest way out.
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admin wrote: Sounds like the counseling is really helping allot to not only understand where the problem(s) is/are coming from but also how to solve them.
Well done to the two of you for getting help before it became too late. I wish more people would be willing to work hard to keep a relationship alive before just looking for the easiest way out.
Thanks Boss, we both recon try because moving on you are starting all over again, meet the family and they are hate you or like you, get together, marry again (never) and you will be in the same boat as men are mars and women are from venus so to speak.
Its a pity we don't know these things when we are younger but you never stop learning.
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