Does your GF/Wife know you use steroids??

Ondier wrote:

Wayne wrote:
wow....well, I am with my wife for 5years now and have not been able to walk away cos I cant stand not coming home and seeing my kids. We dont get along at all...totally different morals and ethical values...totally different outlook on life and what life should be about...She is all about money and havin the best of the best and spending...whereas I would prefer contentment and routine in living. Nothin extravagant...One day the trigger has too be pulled though, and I hope its not too messy cos she has told me many times that she would do everything she can to stop me from seeing my gals...

Lol, does feel good letting it out hey...

And your new test levels doesn't help much does it brother?

Fuck bro, I even tried explaining to her so sweetly that for the next 12weeks or so I need "help" lol, tried libido boosters for her to help her help me too...but nothing helps...she is just beyond common sense!

And once my mum did find some juice and had a total freak out...Indians are not very open-minded, it is good and bad..So I wont really tell my whole family...

Wayne, I really feel for you. By the sound of things, she would also use the juice against you if you guys broke up to keep the kids away from you... You are truly screwed man!!!

You see, its not always good if your partner knows...

My wife knows. Not too fond of the idea but she understands why.

And sometimes its better to have some things secret.

Roger!

AvR wrote: You see, its not always good if your partner knows...

Or choose a better partner that understands this: "What happens in the relationship, stays in the relationship."

admin wrote:

AvR wrote: You see, its not always good if your partner knows...

Or choose a better partner that understands this: "What happens in the relationship, stays in the relationship."

i think we can safely say its a bit too late for me to choose a better partner...well thats how the cookie crumbles

I hope all works out for you bud, especially for the kids sake. I have a soft spot for kids, I love my 3 dearly, even at 28 I would not do anything different.

Well seeing as everyone is being so open and honest I'd thought I'd share.. Firstly I'm so grilled right now and thought I'd read the forum for abit.. And reading this stuff in my state feels like an episode of oprah, but in a good way.
K back to topic- my ex girlgriend use to do my pins and she wasn't happy about me using steroids but I explained and she understood it was what I wanted and if I was happy she was. And if the girl you love can't love you for who you are and what you want she must duck. But the sad part is when we broke up she told the whole world and everyday people ask me am I on juice! I'm like admin, I don't openly discuss my steroid use, so that's the only problem I feel with telling gf's. But people can think and say what they want, I don't really care and she's put on like 10kgs and I've put on like 20kgs in the last year and I'm looking and feeling better than ever! And she looks like shit.Haha. That's my 2cents:) cheers

Yes my wife knows it's better this way, test is good for many things if you know what i mean.

My wife doesn't know. Would love to tell sothat she can assist. Not sure how to tell her or what to say though - any tips?

beemer wrote: My wife doesn't know. Would love to tell sothat she can assist. Not sure how to tell her or what to say though - any tips?

I'm taking steroids....

have your story straight though, expect the why, what, how, why didnt you tell me sooner...

My girlfriend knows about it, she isn't very happy about it but she is still willing to learn about it with me, what ever i learn, i pass on to her, so she can understand the reason we take juice from every angle possible, my brother and my girlfriend always know what I am taking just for medical purposes. When we first started dating I did not tell her, and it was a nightmare, running to the bathroom to do my shot, hiding everything, sneaking around her, it drived me crazy doing this in my own house, i thought she was gonna kill me when i told her but hey, i was surprised, some people dont care what you do, as long as there is that honesty in the relationship! When i took tren tho, I cant say she was the happiest puppy out there!hahaha!

beemer wrote: My wife doesn't know. Would love to tell sothat she can assist. Not sure how to tell her or what to say though - any tips?

Just say "Baby, I'm taking steroids", and explain to her that if done correctly it will improve your lifestyle in general. Promotes healthy eating and exersising and it will work wonders for you sex drive (especially if you have test in your cycle).

I mentioned this before, but give her the documentary "Bigger, Stronger, Faster" to watch. I showed it to my Father and Sister, who were serious non-believers, and it definately changed there view on steroid use. I wouldn't say they are converted, they still do not approve 100% but my steroid use sits more comfortably with them now....i think .

I suppose all partners are concerned with the short and long term side effect, hence knowledge is key.

Got to get my ducks in a row.

BTW, do you inject infront of your kids? Prob no advisable.

BTW, do you inject infront of your kids? Prob no advisable.[/quote]

Thats a no brainer... NO!

beemer wrote: My wife doesn't know. Would love to tell sothat she can assist. Not sure how to tell her or what to say though - any tips?

do what i did,

i had been using for a while, and then i went to the doctor,i told her that i am going to be using steroids,she asked me what,i told her the cycle,and how i had planned on doing pct etc post cycle,and then went back to my parents and told them that i had just been to the doctor to chat to her cos i am intending on using steroids and have done the run down with her making sure that i am in healthy order before i start,told her what i was planning on using and got some advice,she gave me some tetralysil if my skin breaks out and she said she would monitor me,its a personal choice i know and i have done my research and at least my gp knows so that we can have everything tested when i come off.

done deal.

DJ is 100% right, thats the correct way to do it...not all docs are open-minded though...I rem going to a doc once and asking him to giv me a jab of some juice I had, he reckon that its illegal and he should keep the stuff and not give it back to me...blah blah blah...There was another doc who wantd to just give more and more and more, as long as you buying from him..


There was another doc who was eager to learn actually and was willing to help me out cos I "knew what i was doing" He was quite suprised when i asked him for clomid, he reply was "didnt your wife just have a baby?" lol, When I explained to him why, he was quite impressed and said yes that would make sense...

STUARTF wrote:

beemer wrote: My wife doesn't know. Would love to tell sothat she can assist. Not sure how to tell her or what to say though - any tips?

Just say "Baby, I'm taking steroids", and explain to her that if done correctly it will improve your lifestyle in general. Promotes healthy eating and exersising and it will work wonders for you sex drive (especially if you have test in your cycle).

I mentioned this before, but give her the documentary "Bigger, Stronger, Faster" to watch. I showed it to my Father and Sister, who were serious non-believers, and it definately changed there view on steroid use. I wouldn't say they are converted, they still do not approve 100% but my steroid use sits more comfortably with them now....i think .

*Thumbs up*

My 2 cents - My doll appreciates a good body and the fact that there is a great deal of discipline involved (Think it kinda helps with attraction on some levels). As long as the necessary precautions are taken and regular GP visits carried out, she's happy as a pig in mud. As for my mother though....different story. I almost feel guilty about it around her because 30 years ago she gave birth to a healthy baby boy and for me to approach her and tell her that i use performance enhancing drugs to genetically modify my body doesnt seem right.

beemer wrote: My wife doesn't know. Would love to tell sothat she can assist. Not sure how to tell her or what to say though - any tips?

Beemer you turn 39 in February. I'm willing to put my peul on a valbyl your test levels are too low.

If you haven't used test in a recent cycle I would suggest go for bloods and show her the evidence. Just tell your doc you want your test levels tested. Most woman does not like the idea of self medicate at first, but when you have a GP that confirms and back up your story then all of a sudden it is ok to use gear.

When you hit 30 you produce only half of the test you did when you were 20. When you hit 40 you are producing only half of the test you did on 30, and so it goes...

And unfortunately our generation (mid 30s and older) grew up with all of the ouvrou and bangmaak stories surrounding gear. We only heard the bad side of steroid users, the controversial sides that made the headlines. Where the guys add the AB before steroid use = ABuse

So I will say the older your wife gets or the longer you wait the more difficult it is going to be. And it really isn't nice to live in secret with each other. All of a sudden you'll see you don't trust her or getting suspicious about her activities, but it is your own conscious that chases you! :whistle:

Best of luck!

beemer wrote: My wife doesn't know. Would love to tell sothat she can assist. Not sure how to tell her or what to say though - any tips?

How do you manage to keep it secrete from her if you don't mind sharing?

AvR wrote:

beemer wrote: My wife doesn't know. Would love to tell sothat she can assist. Not sure how to tell her or what to say though - any tips?

How do you manage to keep it secrete from her if you don't mind sharing?

Do it at work or in the bathroom. Will probably let her know once she starts seeing the results

Ondier wrote:
Beemer you turn 39 in February. I'm willing to put my peul on a valbyl your test levels are too low.

If you haven't used test in a recent cycle I would suggest go for bloods and show her the evidence. Just tell your doc you want your test levels tested.

Novice question:
Surely the PCT cycle will reverse the low test levels?
And
What results am I hoping for from the doctor ?

beemer wrote:

Ondier wrote:
Beemer you turn 39 in February. I'm willing to put my peul on a valbyl your test levels are too low.

If you haven't used test in a recent cycle I would suggest go for bloods and show her the evidence. Just tell your doc you want your test levels tested.

Novice question:
Surely the PCT cycle will reverse the low test levels?
And
What results am I hoping for from the doctor ?

Ondier is trying to explain that there is probably a legitimate reason to use steroids at your age and that will convince your wife to accept it as a medical treatment.

admin wrote:

beemer wrote:

Ondier wrote:
Beemer you turn 39 in February. I'm willing to put my peul on a valbyl your test levels are too low.

If you haven't used test in a recent cycle I would suggest go for bloods and show her the evidence. Just tell your doc you want your test levels tested.

Novice question:
Surely the PCT cycle will reverse the low test levels?
And
What results am I hoping for from the doctor ?

Ondier is trying to explain that there is probably a legitimate reason to use steroids at your age and that will convince your wife to accept it as a medical treatment.

Ditto thanks Admin

Seriously... when I am involved with someone..
They know from the beginning .

I clearly tell them , if they don't like it , they can piss off
and its not up for discussion .

Its more of a controlling issue with girls..