Woman interfering with training

I was having a chat with a mate at gym. Seems I am not alone.


Does anyone else here have problems with their ladies and the gyming??

In my case the following seems to drives the ladie insane:

I have a strict routine I like to keep to (eating six times and so on ,watch what I eat).

I eat the same stuff day in day out (chicken , chicken veggies veggies )

And pretty much cause I gym 5 times a week?

I mean one to two hours of gym a day is nothing. There is 22 hours left of the day..


Does anyone else have a simular problem?

just with the food part. seems some chicks think its kinda weird and imagine it to be some kind of obsession. but hey, bugger that

turn around and say to her do u bitch and moan when u take an hour to get ready when going out and and 30mins in the bathroom everymorning and leaving hair in the bath plug? no so quit your bitching cos this is your passion and she should support u with what u do...if she was into ball room dancing i am sure u would support it and maybe even join in every now and again if she promised u sexual rewards at the end of the day....dude my last chick i had used to freak out at the amount that i ate,she kept on questioning it etc...i see it this way,if u didnt look good u wouldnt have a decent looking chick,and in order to keep your chick u need to carry on looking good or she will find some other fucker out there...so u need to do what u do inorder to keep her so she must be happy cos u doing this for her.... see my thinking?

you talking my language ... had a domestic about it last night ... bla bla bla gym more important than spending time together bla bla bla .... fuck we have to find our balls and stand up for ourselves

whats with women and "time together?" i mean, it gets boring just hanging around the house with the chick, and they dont want to join you at the gym

Yeah Dj , you seem think like me.

My chick is always questioning about what I eat. Is it really health? How can I eat it? Its so boring bla bla bla. This is bad if you eat to much that is bad and so on. That I am becoming obsessive with my gym…………

I just say what I choose to put in my belly is my business and has nothing to do with anyone else. I eat for results .

I don’t like eating junk food much. I could care if I don’t have any for weeks.
Does not bother me.

I am happy eating the way I am .

Do girl sit and think all day. What can I stick my nose into that has absolutely nothing to do with me.

Instead of complaining they should try joining a gym…

Gym is my time. Afterwards the rest is all hers..

Send them packing. No women tells me what to do and how long and when I can train for. Many have tried and have come off second best. there are far too many women out there to worry about one bitch carring on about how long you train and how much and when you eat. If a chick meets you doing what you do then she knew what she was getting herself into. Send them packing dont even lose sleep over it.

Nice one Chemical G.


In my Case she does not tell me what to do. She just complains and bitches and questions
like woman do. Dont think she can understand it.

I do what I do when I need to do it , how ever long it takes.
The bitching gets on my tits at times.

Let me get a PS3 , so she can find something new to bitch about!

hahahah i have a "brand new" 360 hardly used ... want to take a stab why that is????

Umm? Cause you spending too much time with you bird??

get gta 5 4 that ps and xbox!!

my girl is ok with everything, but then comes her girlfrends and ask me how can u go gyming every day... WTF?

Acid no i dont buddy ... some chicks are just a bit neurotic thats all ...

Seperate issue, what do you guys do for a living? Reason im asking is to see what you guys think of work pressure (i.e. late nights etc) and the effect it has on your motivation ....

I think chicks are just plain maal.

Work pressure helps me train harder. As for the late nights. I go regardless of the time. I just hate it when it stuff around with my eating plan..

work remains at the office. soon as you're out try to forget about it

Hmmm this is why I am a single. There is no ways while I'm preparing for a comp now that I have time for chicks and the emotions that come with it.
They come and go and it's so much easier not being in a relationship.
Unless she wants to cook my chicken, weigh my food and pack my meals... then she is welcome aboard.lol!
This body comes at a price and if she isn't willing to pay it then she can walk the plank.
Do not separate a Bodybuilder and his food... it's the fuel and hard work that makes us look this good

I work 8-5, 5 days a week, lucky it's a desk job so i eat my meals even if I have a client around, they know me for food and gym so they don't mind! Even morning meetings I sit in the meeting room with my post cardio workout meal, a bowl of oats and whey... loving every spoon full:)
I get the comment: "Isn't that boring to eat? Don't you wanna add some sugar, butter and milk?" Reply: "Butter and sugar makes you fat!!! Oats, water, cinnamon, sweeteners and whey... nothing better in the world... because when you on a stricked 12 week diet that's as good as it gets."

If I have to work late and cant get to gym then I take it as a rest day.

I just love these threads.

Arnold said:

If you want to be a champion... you cannot have any kind of an outside negative force coming in and affect you. Let's say before a contest, if l get emotionally involved with a girl... that can have a negative effect on my mind... and therefore destroy my workout. So l have to cut my emotions off... and be kind of cold, in a way, before a competition.

Luckily I don't have this problem.

I think a shock colar might solve the nagging!

A liitle off the topic.

What do you do after you train. Especially on weekends. I dont really go out that much anymore
cause everything revolves around drinking and shit..

If you dont drink you often stick out like a sore thumb.

My girl had same problem, eventually after about a year I did manage to get her interested in running and swimming. Now she comes to gym with me every day. Must say it was not easy and I sponser all her stuff but its all worth it at the end. No more yacking about goin to gym, how long I gym, what I eat or why I'm doin it. Live is a breaze!!!

acidkidsa
Dude I don't have time to do anything during the week. I get home from gym, cook, pack food, eat, eat, eat and go to sleep because got cardio early in the morning. Need my sleep to rest and grow!

During the weekend I try go out... but yet again don't last anytime after 10:30pm, because of the stress I've put my body through during the week. Mostly just go to mates braai's and poker evening.
Also got posing practice every Sunday at 8am... which doesn't really help.lol

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Arnold also said he would he shit if it had good nutritional value.lol

@ skyth

so do you guys do anything ELSE besides bodybuilding? seems all i can hear about is weights and cardio and eating and going to sleep. maybe these women actually have a point.

steroido yea he does,he goes for coffee with me during his lunch breaks most days haha....Ogre,Skyth and i meet on a very regular basis haha...

i mean when do you get to show off your great bod? during coffee break?

steroido
Well at the moment I'm preparing for my first comp and want to do well. So it's pretty much just gym for 3 months.lol!
But I do go out during the weekend... way to busy with work and gym during the week.
But when I'm not competing I go out during the week and eat normal food at least twice a week, still keep my diet clean though.
It's just a sacrifice I'm willing to make to achieve my goal.

i thought i was dedicated...guess i have to step up my game too
can you give me a rough outline of exactly what you're eating/taking to get ready? might give me some inspiration